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Polishing
Public
Speeches
by Matt K
Most of
us, at one time or another, were exposed to public
speaking through our education. It
may
have been a college course, or even a high school class. Perhaps
the entire semester was comprised of
a series of speeches, or perhaps only a single speech was required in a
wider
communications class. Those
courses taught us some of the basic principles of
public speaking. We
studied them,
memorized them for testing, tried to make an effort at putting them to
use
during our unbearable classroom presentations and then moved on at
term’s end,
happy to be free of public speaking again! As
working adults, however, we are beginning to realize that
those skills we were supposed to learn might actually be valuable to us
now. We can see
that those
who are able
to make a favorable impression with their public speaking skills have
greater
opportunity for job advancement. We
realize that great presenters have a wonderful marketing tool at their
disposal. Many of
us admire those
who
are able to stand up and eloquently present a viewpoint or idea in
other
non-business aspects of life. Unfortunately,
our skills
remain limited. That
brief bit of study
did not really stick as much as we might now
wish it had. Additionally,
the
course
itself was probably limited in the first place.
Let’s
be honest, classroom speeches in front of a bunch of
terrified and frustrated kids really isn’t the greatest
laboratory for testing
the principles of public speaking.
Besides, the speeches
themselves were probably quite a bit different
from what we would be doing today if we had the skills.
So, here
we are. We
are wishing we would have taken more classes on public speaking and
wishing we
had paid more attention in the ones we did attend.
We
recognize that our skills are limited and that improving them
would really offer an opportunity to improve the quality of our own
life. However,
reality is
going to stop us from
going back to school. We do
not have the time. Spending
for the
tuition seems outrageous. Studying
for the
coursework around the rest of busy lives does
not seem pragmatic. Our
history with
public speaking classes leaves us doubting that attendance would really
help
that much, anyway. With
no real
alternative in sight, we are simply resigned to the prospect of having
to work
from a disadvantage from here on out.
We will have to keep
struggling without having that tool in our
communication arsenal. That
commonly held opinion is as wrong as it is
self-defeatist. It
is possible to gain
the public speaking skills we desire without returning to school. There
is no need to make a long-term
commitment to a classroom study program.
You can learn how to
give better speeches and to conquer speech anxiety
without going through all of those hassles. There
are two keys to making this happen.
First,
you must have a sufficient level of
dedication. You
must be willing to
learn and to make a strong effort at improving your skills. No
one will supply a magic solution that
will make you a top orator without effort and commitment on your part. Second,
you must find a resource to help
guide your study. A good public
speaking
learning tool will include information on speech
anxiety, the basic elements of constructing a speech, handy delivery
tips and
tricks, and some more advanced information and help about things like
properly
utilizing humor, statistics and visual aids in presentations. This
guide does not need to be five hundred
pages long and it certainly should not cost thousands of dollars. Find
a resource that covers the necessities
at a fair price and then put yourself to work mastering its lessons. An
investment in a good guide, combined with a willingness
to learn a new skill (or to polish existing skills) is all that is
necessary to
develop top-notch public speaking skills.
Public speaking skills are a great way to improve one’s position in the business world and can help improve one’s overall life by enhancing self-confidence and buttressing other interpersonal communication skills. As much as everyone professes to hate speaking in public, all of us want to be good at it. Fortunately, that is possible for those willing to learn.
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